Marriage A Life Time Commitment Not An Accomplishment

Topic of marriage may come as sensitive to many but truth is most of us we get it all wrong because we see marriage as a huge accomplishment which is not the case. Marriage is one of the things we all wish for to get but question is are we are aware of the fact that it is a life time commitment? Once you are in turning back or deciding to go back may be the hardest thing ever. You do not achieve anything by getting married because anyone else can. Just like breathing everyone breaths but what may differ is the way you may breath or the way you may get married. In however way a person may understand how marriage should operate, it should not be what accounts for the sanctity of individualism. There is a greater life before marriage. Those that tend to view marriage as an accomplishment often become self limited to things that matter the most like acquiring knowledge, your own wealth and finding happiness before marriage. Marriage is not a brain drive or special skill meaning you can have it anytime after your own personal achievements. Marriage tends to become an accomplishment because of social obligations. The rush to getting married because you don't want to be left alone without being married when all your peers have been married. Letting other people decide who you are or what you should do that was a NO in one of my topics DON'T LET ANYONE DECIDE WHO YOU ARE. When getting married it means you are letting go of all which your partner doesn't want, it means you are now under someone else's control. It's not just about getting married or changing your Facebook status thus you need to live life and accomplish greater things before marriage as it is not an accomplishment but life time commitment.